Merry... Mercury???

Get ready to embrace the transformative energy of Mercury retrograde in December 2023! From December 13th to January 1st, 2024, this cosmic event will shake things up in your relationships. It's happening right in the middle of the holiday season, when stress can run high. But fear not, let's proactively navigate this wave with our minds and connections intact.

Here's a glimpse of what's in store:

Clear the Path: Prepare for miscommunications and misunderstandings. It might feel like having a phone conversation before 3G, a little fuzzy and filled with static. To get your point across, be crystal clear and direct in your communication.

Opportunities for Healing: Be prepared for unresolved conflicts and old wounds to resurface. This is an opportunity to address them with positivity and growth in mind. To paraphrase what I mentioned in my December 1st FB reading: 

"This season brings out the inner child in all of us. With families gathering, it's easy to fall into old habits from our childhoods. But how can we move past that? How can we slay adulting and avoid falling into old patterns? Harness your emotions and express yourself calmly and respectfully to find harmony amidst the chaos."

So, I invite us to do the following:

Ride the Emotional Waves: The retrograde might intensify your emotions, making conflicts feel more intense. Keep self-awareness close by. Express your feelings calmly and respectfully to find harmony amidst the chaos.

Patience and Flexibility: Don't be surprised by delays or setbacks in communication, travel plans, and commitments. Embrace patience and flexibility, they will be your greatest allies. Also, remember to pause in the moment. Taking a breath can reset our nervous system and prevent us from saying things we don't mean!

A Trip Down Memory Lane: Get ready for memories and nostalgia to flood your mind. Embrace this introspective pause to reflect on past relationships and simpler times. And if those memories are happy ones, immerse yourself in them and feel the joy, peace, and love associated with them.

Now, let's conquer it all:

The Art of Slowing Down: During this retrograde period, take your time in communication and decision-making. Rushing can lead to unnecessary mistakes.

Pay Attention to Detail: Read your messages carefully and proofread them. Feel free to hit delete as many times as needed. Avoid signing contracts or making major purchases. Always double-check travel arrangements to avoid unpleasant surprises. Even the most organized among us need to stay vigilant for mishaps.

Empathy and Active Listening: When others seem confused or frustrated, respond with empathy and compassion. And if you're feeling overwhelmed, show yourself some compassion too. Patience and understanding create space for deeper connections.

Open and Honest Communication: Tackle issues head-on by communicating openly and honestly. Clearly express your feelings, leaving no room for misunderstandings. Just because someone is playing a certain tune, doesn't mean you have to dance to it.

The Power of Forgiveness: If past hurts resurface, embrace this golden opportunity to forgive yourself and others. Letting go will bring harmony to your relationships.

Self-Care is Essential: Take moments for self-care, allowing yourself to relax and recharge. Engage in mindfulness exercises like meditation or journaling to find inner peace. We may not have control over what happens around us, but we can cultivate peace within.

Soul-Searching: Use this powerful retrograde period to reflect on your relationships. Identifying areas for improvement will help you become a stronger version of yourself. It's the perfect time for deep inner work and to release any baggage you don't want to carry into the new year.

Seek Professional Support: If navigating the challenges of Mercury retrograde feels overwhelming, don't hesitate to reach out to a therapist or counselor. They can provide invaluable insights and support.

Get ready to embrace this transformative cosmic energy and let it guide you to growth, healing, and deeper connections. You've got this! Happy Holidays!